Dissolving Internal Dissonance
Ever realize that the most negative, draining voice in your life is your OWN? Ouch/ yikes/ I know thousands of successful human beings who can relate.
I think so many of us attempt to bury feelings of inadequacy, shame, or guilt—compiling even more of these uncomfortable feelings by assuming that we are the only ones full of so many “weak” and unseen emotions.
Let your ego go, bro.
We ALL face difficulties and insecurities from time to time, and if you truly have NEVER experienced this, please comment below and let us know your secrets!
We all want to be our best, but to do that, I believe wholeeartedly in the Law of Awareness: whatever we are willing to look at, be with, and accept (even if we don’t particularly LIKE it), we have the ability to transcend.
Imagine somebody walks around with the belief, “I am unlovable. I am unworthy of love.”
You can imagine how, whether they openly address or admit to this belief (or are even conscious of it to begin with) how these inner beliefs would inevitabily play out in their lives.
Perhaps they find themselves in crappy relationships with people who treat them like the dirt they believe they are.
We teach people how to treat us.
Same with bitter, mean, nasty ass people. Left unresolved, toxicity spreads, grows, festers.
Look within.
What you see might not be pretty. It might be very difficult to see, very, very ugly.
So ugly you think you are alone.
You aren’t.
Ever.
The key to confidence, I’ve found, is to be able to see the weakest, grossest parts of yourself and not EXCUSE this behavior (oh, I’m just a narracisstic axe murder, no biggie, I’m good) but to see what is there and really feel it, however uncomfortable at first.